Soul Profile Reading and Realignment | Heather Finch

Will: Hey, everyone it's will. And I'm really grateful that you've come back to listen to another episode of the skeptic metaphysician. This one's going to be a very different episode than any of our others, simply because this one focuses exclusively on Karen. This also marks a very first time we're having a returning guest on the show.

My friend, Heather Finch came on our very third episode to speak to us about Reiki. And this time comes to talk to us about a process called soul realignment. [00:01:00] Now, this is such a powerful modality that we opted to give my co-host Karen, a private experience with Heather, so that we'd have an opportunity to edit out anything that we thought was just a little bit too personal to share.

As it turns out, we've decided to release the episode exactly as it was recorded with nothing edited. The fact is that this modality, this reading that Heather did for Karen is so breathtakingly powerful that it would be a tragedy not to share the entire thing with you. I can tell you that Karen was shaken by the information that you're about to hear mostly in a good.

But tears were definitely shed. So whether you're familiar with soul realignment or the Akashic records, or this is the first time you heard of it, you're about to learn a lot about the process and a lot about my cohost. I don't know about you, but I can't wait to listen in. So let's get right to it. Here is Heather Finch, Karen Endsley in soul realignment.

Take it [00:02:00] away. Karen.

Karen: 

Heather. I am so excited to get a chance to talk to you today. And as much as I wish will was here, I'm kind of glad he's not think if I could get a little more personal about this. 

Heather Finch: Exactly. Exactly. I am so excited to be here today and I really appreciate your volunteering to have a reading because it is a beautiful experience, but you're right.

It is a very personal thing and it's probably best. That it's between just you and me. And then you can decide whether to share it with the world. 

Karen: Well, I think I have faith. I think what we'll share, because whether it's good or bad, you know, we want people to know and to know what this experience is like.

So before we really get into that, I want you to tell me what is soul realignment? What is it that you do?

Heather Finch: I guess it's, I don't want to say scientific cause that's probably not the right word, but it's accessing the Akashic records and the Akashic records that this could become a, a long [00:03:00] description. I apologize. A soul realignment is, is actually looking at the Akashic records for you based on your intentions.

So. What your intentions were that I asked you to write down for this reading. When I go into the records, it allows me to ask questions basically just yes or no questions, but those questions, then give me the ability to understand that. About what you've asked and, and I know that doesn't sound scientific, but it doesn't sound extremely woo either.

 And the background to all of this is that we are made up of 10 dimensions and we all understand the third dimension because that's our physical bodies and that's how we, we, we can touch things and see here. In this third dimension, the fourth dimension is our mental ability. We can think, we can think into the future and plan.

We can remember things from the past so we [00:04:00] understand time, but time is a fourth dimension construct. The Akashic records are in the fifth dimension. So they're just beyond our reach. We don't see them. We can't quite access them without having a bit of a tool to be able to access them. And. From the fifth to the 10th dimension, we can't see them.

We don't know what they are. We were still trying to figure all that out. But quantum physics states, we have 10 dimensions. 

Karen: And so for people who don't really know what the Akashic records are, can you give them just a quick explanation of what that is? 

Heather Finch: Yes, it is a database. Basically, if you think of the internet and being able to find out just about anything you want by typing in a Google search, the Akashic records is the same thing.

It is a massive data point, just sitting in a library. And the way that I access them is like a card catalog in the library. And I go over and I go, this is what I want to know. [00:05:00] And can you tell me what that is? And then I get that information back from the Akashic records, but it is a very logical thing in the sense that I asked yes or no questions.

And it gives me an answer to those questions.

 Yes, it is. That's a great way to put it. I like that spiritual group.

Well, oddly enough, it is. Anybody can do this I am by no means a psychic. I have learned how to work with my intuition and the last 10 years or so I, but I was very on intuitive before that. And even recently in the last five years is only when I've started to really master my own intuition.

So anybody can do this. So what 

Karen: got you interested in this? What, what kind of pulled the trigger for 

Heather Finch: you? I wanted to find out what my soul's purpose was. And it's a long story and I won't go into it today. It, it is on [00:06:00] my website about my life was, has not been the easiest. And so, I'm not saying I've had a bad life, but for me, it's not the easiest.

So I wanted to find out in my mid forties, what on earth am I here for? And I saw this full profile reading and realignment, and I went, that sounds interesting. It sounds extravagant to go and pay for someone to do this, to tell me what. Purpose in life. Is, is that really going to make any sense or difference or does it work?

And so I had my own reading and that reading wasn't scary. I thought it was going to be a little bit scary. It wasn't scary at all. I took everything with a grain of salt, but I actually started to see what my purpose was after that, because I learned what my own divine nature was made up of. And by knowing my own divine nature, it reaffirmed some of the things that I thought were wrong with me, or actually some of [00:07:00] my strengths.

Wow. 

Karen: I love that. 

Heather Finch: Gosh, that is so 

Karen: true. Yeah. And it's interesting how you say, you know, it wasn't the easiest life. I have found, and I'm sure you found too sometime that people that are, are interested in the metaphysics physics, or even in arts are people that had struggles that they dealt with and they have pulled from inside their spirit, different strengths and different talents and are expressing those in the world.

Heather Finch: Yes. Yes. It's through the turmoil. Sometimes that we experience the lows that then allow us to understand and appreciate the highs and everything is a wave. I mean, emotions are like, they go up and they go down and they go up and the down and that's just life. 

Karen: I think it also creates that that ability to empathize with people.

And when you have that, gosh, when you're in traffic and someone cuts you off, instead of being like, oh, what a jerk? You're like, oh, maybe in, maybe they're going to the hospital. Maybe, you know, something's happened and you just have that feeling of empathy and it helps things be easier.

It [00:08:00] helps you accept the pain more. I don't know. Does that make 

Heather Finch: sense? It's that crazy?

Energy empathy for you is your gift. So to, to go on it, I don't know if we should start with your reading kind of a good lead into it.

Karen: You might, 

Heather Finch: you might do. It depends. We'll probably cry more when we get to the, I'll tell you what we're going to do. We're going to talk about your divine and. And then your gifts, then we're going to find out where you would have chosen to incarnate first in this vast universe. And we don't all incarnate here on earth the first time or the first.

Incarnations. And so that's very exciting to find out,

well then, then the rest of the bit is do we find out some blocks and restrictions that may be preventing you from achieving your goals that you wrote down as your, your [00:09:00] intentions that you want to achieve? So the, when you hear them, I'll want you to think about how this energy that you're hearing about might be effective.

If you're not feeling like you're getting towards your intentions, but saying all that, some people might think that Ooh, blocks and restrictions sounds scary. It's not, it is actually meant to your, into your highest good has. What has what will come out today by setting your intentions? This information is basically being said back to you.

It's not me being special

Kashic records. Then tell me, well, they re responds to my questions and that's the information that you, your higher self was looking for from this. your divine energy is completely. And compassion makes up 51% of your divine nature. So that's a lot, I mean, usually our primary energy is between 40 and 50%.

So [00:10:00] you're pushing past the 50% to 51% and compassion is such a beautiful, beautiful energy. It's all about community and nature. Nurture. And like I said before, the divine gift is empathy. And that's a beautiful thing because empathy is where you can see what other people need and you can provide what other people need by doing or providing their basic needs.

And you do intuitively if you wouldn't have to think twice, you just say, oh, well, this person needs that. But where you Excel is when it's a group. Uh, Community. And so if it's a family or if it's in a community environment like a neighborhood or a school even by leading a group and being able to put some structure into a group that is where you will have the most.

Feedback that gives you energy. And it's also where you manifest the best 

Karen: , so I work in [00:11:00] TV sometimes in front of the camera, sometimes I'm behind, but lately I've been doing. Production. And yesterday we just had a really rough shoot. So I sent a message out to the crew, thanking them for all their work.

And I got the best, like it brought tears to my eyes messaged back from these guys, specifically talking about leadership and I was just floored. So it's just, and it's a small group. And so I have goosebumps and I am about to cry.

Heather Finch: This is why I love giving readings though, is because I start to hear that. From something where it's totally not, I haven't had a conversation with you before, but these data points just tell me what needs to be said.

So the more, about, more about compassion the people with this. Energy will Excel at creating well. And I actually already say creating structuring and building communities, and that's what you're doing with, with what you did yesterday. You're bringing people [00:12:00] together and the most important part for you.

I mean, you're great at the community aspect and that's great for the community, but the most important part for you is that you feel valued. In that group or community. And if for some reason, you're in a community where you feel isolated, where you've been giving to the communities, think you're providing their needs, but you just feel like you're on the outside.

And you're like, wait a minute. The community is meant to be inclusive. And why do I feel isolated? That's when you need to look at the situation and say, maybe I need to address with the community, why I'm feeling isolated, but your nature. Would not want to do that. Your nature would go well, this is a community I'd better be more about the community, less about myself, more about the community.

And that's actually where you can get into a state of. So being aware that that can happen to you is where you can stop that from happening. You just go, [00:13:00] okay, wait a minute. I'm feeling isolated and feeling outside of the group, but yet I've given so much to this group. So what you do is you address it with a group by being very clear about what you need from the.

Because once you say what you need from the group, the group can respond to you. You're the expert at groups. They're not the experts at groups, 

Karen: and you're sure you haven't talked to will about me at all, because this is like blowing my mind.

Been part of a woman's organization here because I let you know women empowerment and all of this, and I was doing everything, volunteering for everything. And I just wanted to make friends because we don't have any family in this area. And it's, it's a military area. People move a lot, so it's hard to make friends.

So that was my whole purpose of getting into this group. And after like two years, I finally, I just left because I felt like I was just giving it my all and getting nothing back. 

Heather Finch: Yes. And I'm so proud of you for leaving, because that is something that's really hard for. [00:14:00] Yeah. Because you think, well, it's about the community and I can't leave the community, but it's the right thing to do.

Sometimes. Sometimes the right thing to do is to address it and ask the community, you know I need something out of this too, that it has to be a two-way street for you. If there's not the value coming back to you. It's not healthy for you. And so by leaving that community and moving on to another community where you are appreciated, that's, what's important.

And that's how you stay connected to that vital force energy. And that's where you'll get your energy from basically. So all of that sets really reaffirming about that, that, that you understand that will look at me. Like I'm not sure. 

Karen: Oh my gosh.

Heather Finch: Well, the thing to take away from your, your energy, it sounds like you, you understand your divine energy, even if you've never been told it before. It really resonates with you that it is about the community. And when [00:15:00] you get that feedback, that is a charge and it raises your vibration. So, and you do seem to be aware that you don't want to get depleted because otherwise what's the point, really?

Because when you're depleted, you can't provide for a community, you can't do anything constructive. So we'll move on to the exciting. Which is where you originally incarnated. Yeah. And it was Polaris, which is the north star. well, the galaxy of the north star, cause obviously we couldn't probably incarnate on an, a plant on a sun, but but a planet within that galaxy.

And so people who incarnated there that. Characteristics of the, this group of people and they are the true north. They are the ones that everyone else relies on and goes to when all else fails, because they know they can trust them. They are loyal. They are the ones that we [00:16:00] know will always be there for.

Polarians. I have a tendency to stay in communities. They have a tendency to stay in jobs. They have a tendency to stay in everything they tend to do sometimes longer than they need to 

And so it's one of those things where well, I shouldn't say one of those things, they tend to understand communities and groups.

It's like, this is because of your divine energy. It's almost, that's why you would have incarnated into this Polarian area, because it's very linked to compassion in so many ways. It is all about oneness and unity inclusivity. They don't like exclusivity. If there's some reason why somebody is excluded, they're going to try to bring them into the group.

So that's a big part. Honda's going to check, go through my, the rest of the information. So I don't miss anything

Polarians. Bring in the energies of oneness. They have a talent for [00:17:00] creating these energies within groups and communities. So being that the compassion. And it is very community-based by being a Polaria and you actually bring that community together. So not only just working within a community, you have the ability to almost wrap your arms around a community and, and provide that glue that helps them all stick together.

So, and, and that's one of the traits of the Clarions is that they are the glue that sticks everything together because everyone just relies on them. Hard part for Polaris though, is that they don't like to make big changes. And they think that making little changes might be okay, but making a big change sounds really, really scary.

And so what happens is that they try to make these little changes, but that's not conducive for them. They actually, because they stick like glue and. Able to carry on with things. They actually do see the bigger picture [00:18:00] after waiting and sitting back for awhile. So they know when they've got to make a change.

Sometimes it has to be a big change and it can be frightening to them. But a big change is much better for a Polaria than a lot of little small chain. It's because of the way that they approach a situation, because they'll have all the facts. So having all the facts and going, well, let's try this. It's not going to get them very far, having all the facts and going, yeah, let's just do it.

That's, that's a good thing for them because they'll know that they're actually heading in the right direction. It's just hard to do it sometimes. So maybe the motto for Polaria and should be just do it when they make up their mind. 

Karen: I do take a while to make decisions. I do even little decisions. Take me a long time to, 

Heather Finch: yeah.

Yeah. Well, and what it's saying here is that just any change isn't comfortable and they might make little decisions because it feels like it's easier to make than a big change. Sometimes making that big change is actually [00:19:00] easier. It's just harder to realize it. Oh, and, and I don't know, but sometimes Polaris can be very.

And then they can follow a path. That's clearly not going to serve them, even when others can see that it won't serve them, but they continue on that path to be aware of.

I think you might relate to that from that reaction. 

Karen: Just a bit, a hundred percent. I just feel like I have to follow it through. Until it's done, even though I know I shouldn't 

Heather Finch: waste the energy on 

Karen: the energy at the time I've done that less as I've gotten older, because I've realized it's just not worth your life force.

But when I was young agents used to just keep going, you know, we'll see how this ride ends up. And you know, you know, it's going to suck at the end.

Maybe that's the not wanting to change. That's being afraid of the 

Heather Finch: [00:20:00] change because the change is not following it through. And then, you know, it's like, well, I know this will just kind of continue on. That is something to be aware of with you're now incarnated on earth. And so you're learning earth earthly habits and you've incarnated other places as well.

Just to put a little bit of interesting stuff out there. I didn't look at that. I I'm just making a guess. Most of us have encountered. How many 

Karen: times do people typically incarnate? Is there like an average number or is it 

Heather Finch: just, yeah, there is in the sense that I'm between I'm in around 60 incarnations would probably be the number, but some people can incarnate a whole lot more than that.

And other people could be newer at the whole process or have less incarnations in the sense that we may not necessarily incarnate every time. Into a 3d body because we're 10 dimensions. This is something, this is something we can do. And it's the experience of this physical world that we're [00:21:00] looking for because you can't have that physical world in the fist demand.

Yeah. 

Karen: Wow. So something that you said earlier when you're talking about the people that incarnate Polaris when I was younger, I used to have these dreams that I was an older one. And I was leading a group of people to the horizon. It was just a weird recurring dream. That was like this older wise woman.

I was leading this group of people. Very, very kind of like motherly. I wonder if that has to do with that. I mean, I haven't had those dreams in a while since I used to 

have 

Heather Finch: this, all this. I think it does have to do with your, with maybe a past life that you've had, but it has to do very much with your divine nature, because if you're leading a group of people, that's a group of community and that speaks to your compassion.

It also speaks to the Polaria and being the one that. That leads them down that path. And granted sometimes the past can go on and on and on and they shouldn't do that. [00:22:00] But but, but also the polarity and aspect of that oneness it, it's like you're bringing people together. To understand that we are all one, I don't know.

I'm just going off on my own thing. They're Polariansare very much about that. Unity and inclusivity. 

Karen: And then something else that you said that was also one of those I'm telling you, this is blowing my mind. A friend actually of mine and wills sent us a message a week or two ago, and it was quote, you are my true.

Heather Finch: God 

Karen: you're freaking me out. 

Heather Finch: Wow. Wow. That's well, and it, from what I understand, people who are Polaria and tend to. Look at the north star a lot and they're like, oh yeah, I'm drawn to looking at the north star when they see it in the sky. And they're fascinated with it or hearing things like someone telling you the true north it's interesting to coincidence is they come up.

[00:23:00] So to now we'll move on to what your record wanted you to hear. I just need to find, and these are soul stories. Basically what happens is the information in the Akashic records is it's just data, data, sorry. I'm in the UK. I can't remember which way to say it. Okay. Okay. And it's just information.

There's no emotion connected to it. They are just facts that happened now being 3d beings with a force. Emotional mental ability. We tend to put emotion into everything. So by telling you a story, you might put more emotion into it than maybe is necessary. That's not the point. The point is what the data is.

And so I will tell you this story to give you a real world, for lack of a better word, a real word, understanding of this. And I'm going to say the word negative, but don't think negative is bad. If I, if I fall into saying negative, it's only because it's not in alignment with your divine [00:24:00] energy, your divine, and anything that you do.

That's in alignment with your divine energy is positive for you. But if it's not in alignment with your divine energy, then it's negative for you. It doesn't mean. It just means that it's negative for you. It might be right for somebody else and societal norms maybe. Right. For some people and not right.

For other people, even though they're societal norms. So that's where understanding what's right for you is more important than understanding what's right. For everybody else. Or I shouldn't say everybody else because it's societal norms just.

So for the first pattern that the, the records brought up. Now, this is something that happened in your present life. There could be past life or present life, social stories. I can't tell you the story about something that happened in your present life, because you're actually going to tell me maybe what might've happened.

And we're going to try to jog your memory as to what might've happened around this time. Period. What I can tell you is that somewhere between the ages of 31 and [00:25:00] 35, Something happened that was quite painful for you emotionally. And you had a feeling of misplacement, a lack of belonging, or possibly trouble integrating with family or with society 

and this caused you to lose the, like a, it's like a sense of self. At that time. Can you think of anything that might've happened between ages of 31 and 35 because it could have started at 28 and going into 31 or it could have started at 34 and gone on. 

Karen: Gosh, lately, it's hard for me to remember what happened 

Heather Finch: last week.

I understand that 

Karen: I, you know, I don't, I'm trying to think what was I doing at that point? I had. I had been a teacher and then I quit teaching right around the age of 30, 31. And then I was working for a real estate investment company. It wasn't a job. I didn't love the job, but I loved the benefits of the job just because it was kind of like, if you don't have to work, don't be at work.

You know, it was [00:26:00] very, I had a lot of free time and that I appreciated, I think. For me, maybe the drawback and something. I do regret. I stayed with that job for a long time, for 11 years. Wow. Because it was easy and it was, you know, there's a lot of details. But I didn't do things I should have done. So could that be it?

I had these plans when I was younger for my future, that I feel like I got lazy and I didn't manifest those plans because I was doing something that was easy and I didn't have to work. And I remember someone telling me life shouldn't always be a struggle. So I'm like, okay, this is the, this is easy.

And I stuck with that. I mean, could that be 

Heather Finch: it, maybe it very well could be, but it would have been w the reason why it wasn't. Positive for you. Wasn't because it was easy it's because you probably didn't have a sense of belonging and there wasn't a community involved. It might've been a one-on-one type of situation.

Karen: The time I was in an office by [00:27:00] myself, 98%. 

Heather Finch: Okay. That, that what happened during that time period, according to your cash records will have caused you to have a negative. Energy that was created, and it sounds like you stuck with it for a very long time, and that's why this is coming up. 

It's like a lack of a longing feeling, but it was probably due to the job. not you yourself.

 I think 

Karen: and this as much as it was an easy job, it's something I regret. And I'm not trying to sound boastful or anything, but in school and in college, I was always the Dean's list. The president's list, the highest grades, most let's leave to succeed, won all the awards. And so I had these future plans and goals, and then I did this job that was very easy and I let all this time pass.

Where I was going to have my doctorate by the time I was 30. And like, none of that happened. And ever since then, I have been tremendously disappointed with myself because I couldn't have done more. 

Heather Finch: [00:28:00] Okay. This, this sounds like, and I'm probably not supposed to do this, but it sounds like it's actually tied into the next soul story.

And this is just, it was just to tell us where. This has really affected you in your current life. The next soul story is a past life story. So I actually get to tell you a story. I think I'm going to tell you in advance. So I usually tell after the story, but what the story wants you to pick up from this is that you have some.

Negative energy around your own self-esteem and your personal goals. And it's all about miscommunication. And I don't understand the miscommunication, but the best way for me to describe the miscommunication was with my little story. Fingers crossed, helps you to understand it. So two lifetimes ago, you incarnated as.

And you were married during this lifetime, but while you were married, you met [00:29:00] the love of your life. Obviously not the man you were married to, but due to societal constraints in that time period, you did not feel able to leave your husband for your love, the man that you love. Felt that you had miscommunicated to him and your relationship?

I wouldn't say it was a, it wasn't a physical relationship, but you're, you're wanting to be with him and him wanting to be with you, but never really being able to get together. He felt that you were miscommunicating, that you were kind of leaving him on. I'm just using that as a word, this miscommunication does the word really that came up and unfortunately over the years, what happened, and this is the reason why this became a negative thing for you that followed you.

He unfortunately decided to commit suicide in that lifetime. I didn't, and that's a horrible thing to hear. And it was a horrible experience for you. It's stuck in your soul, [00:30:00] that, that you feel that you blame yourself for this, this passing of this man that, that you did love. So it was really very painful, but the thing is you did not cause his death.

And that's the important thing. You need to clear. Now you won't know this in your current life because it wasn't a past life. And when we come to this life, we don't remember these things, but that negative energy feeling like some things went wrong because of miscommunication and you don't ever want that to ever go wrong again, has been following you around and it affected your personal goals and your sense of self-esteem.

And it has ever since. So now after we're done today, I'm going to send you some homework and all it is is it's clearing. It's just saying reading through something that will clear this energy, and it will remove this weird sense of miscommunication that's [00:31:00] caused trauma from your divine nature, because you've been carrying it with you ever since.

Karen: Well, that might explain. I mean, I did, I got married later. I didn't meet Wil until I was 38, I think 37, 38, somewhere around there, but I would stay in relationships really long because I felt terrible to break up with someone. I didn't want to hurt someone like that. That was my biggest thing. It was, you know, guys that were, I shouldn't have been with and I just felt so bad for a couple of them.

Heather Finch: Very much like this story has carried through into this, into this lifetime, but the good news is, is that you can clear that energy and you can release that. So going forward, you don't have that negative energy that you've decided to carry on with you because it was so painful. It is just, it's a very healing process to just do the reading.

And [00:32:00] once you intend for this negative energy to be gone, it's actually gone instantly. But we do ask you to read the, the, the homework for 21 days. And the reason for that is because what's happened is you've lived your life and you've had relationships that you've, you just didn't want to hurt anybody.

And because of that, You've developed habits in this lifetime that you need to no longer they don't serve you. So you need to make new habits and going forward, the 21 days of homework will help you to remember that. Oh yes, I need to release that energy because that's actually not me. That was something that happened and it affected me.

But now that I'm clearing it, I can. Me not have that negative energy stopping me from doing things that I need to do for me, 

Karen: the homework help to identify those habits. 

Heather Finch: No, you will have to identify those habits. Unfortunately, by clearing the [00:33:00] energy. What you're doing is you're setting the, the slate clean.

You have these little things called white lights that there's 15 of them that follow you around and they are like the, the coincidences, or when you set your intention to do something, these little beings that are out there, they're not really being some more like energy. They will say this is the right way.

Follow me. And so they'll help you. They are going to definitely guide you along the way towards making the right new habits. I mean, we already know what the bad habits are in the sense that you stick in something too long out of fear of hurting somebody and maybe. I don't know how that's gonna play out going forward in the sense that I don't, you know, if you don't have a situation like that currently in your life, that's not important.

Yeah.

Actually I think that [00:34:00] the takeaway from this one is to realize that you are here to have your experience in this. And the other people are also here to have their experience and their body, and they're responsible for themselves. And you're responsible for you and therefore what's right for you. If that means walking away from something.

It's not hurting someone else. That's their experience that they've come here to have an experience. And part of our life is ups and downs and people coming and going from our lives.

Karen: That's going to be tough.

So it's like, I've kind of imposed this penance for something from a couple of lifetimes ago, I've been carrying around. 

did you see the movie? Oh, it's this incredible movie. It's like Robert de Niro and Jeremy irons. And it's like this mission and this guy has killed his brother and he has to [00:35:00] go be a missionary now to make up for that.

But he decides that that's not enough. So, and they're like, this is way back when, and they're climbing through the Hills and the mountains in Portugal, and he ties this net full of armor and swords and all this heavy stuff onto him so that he has to carry that up. You know, and he makes himself do that.

And then finally it gets to where he's about to die and the priest cuts it off and, you know, releases him from that penance, but enough bag of stuff. 

Heather Finch: Yes. Well, you're released from that penance basically solely by. For this to be clear, it's clear, just like with the first soul story that we talked about where, and it seems to be related around that job.

This one will bring a stronger sense of self-esteem and you'll be able to achieve your personal goals because this energy is being cleared from this particular person. So this, this one's quite it. This could be a life-changer in a sense [00:36:00] that you will be able to achieve your personal goals that you're looking to achieve.

So, because you might've been holding yourself back before through concern, you know, and it's good to be concerned for others. I'm not saying, you know, just live your life for yourself, but staying with something that's not a two way street. Isn't good for any. And people make their own beds. This is the way I look at it.

So if it's not a two-way street, then they will understand that because, well, it's gotta be a two-way street

and there's one more soul story. And this one is based around a feeling of helplessness. And this happened in your current life as well, but this happened when you were between seven and 10. And so what happens, I mean, I can't tell you what happened only. You can say what happened, but somebody or a situation made you feel that you were helpless and that negative energy has carried through.

[00:37:00] Out your life and, and you want to just say, you know what, you might've learned your lesson at that point at seven or 10 or however old you were at that point. We don't have control over our lives and we don't have the capability of doing a lot so we can feel helpless. But in this day and age as adults, we can make changes.

So we aren't helpless. We can feel it, start to feel, oh, I'm a bit helpless about that. And then actually think about it and go, well, I can do this or I could do that. I'm not actually helpless. Even things we don't have control over. We don't have to be held. Because if we can make changes in our own life, can you think of anything that might've happened between seven?

Karen: My parents got divorced when I was seven. Oh, wow. Yeah.

Lifestyle change in every regard 

Heather Finch: you had no input to that situation at all. And you were completely helpless to that situation. Oh man. Well, your Akashic [00:38:00] record wanted to bring that up today and remind you that you're not helpless. And by clearing this energy, you can make the changes. You can, you can make the choices.

I shouldn't say changes. You're in control of your own life. Your choices are what's right for you.

Yes. Yes. Yes it's it's. And when I, when I sent the information to will about this, I did say there could be triggers and oddly enough, reading your record, it seems so beautiful. And everything. And I thought, oh, there aren't any triggers in here. Sorry about that. Oh, no, that's good. This is 

Karen: good. This is, this is, you know, and this is what people also, I want people to hear and to know, and to share in my experience, this is going to help a lot of people.

Heather Finch: So, what I want to ask you is what would you take away from when you're doing your homework? What will you be thinking about as a takeaway action or things to be aware of as you do your homework and start to go forward?

Karen: [00:39:00] You know, I've always said, I'm the sum of my past experiences, which is true, but I guess I need to not put those limitations and say, that's only who I am. 

Heather Finch: So.

Try that one down too. Absolutely beautiful. I really love what you've just said because I, I, I think what your intentions were, and I don't know if you want to say what your intentions are and you don't have to, but every single one of them will be helped by that little mantra that you've just said.

Karen: Yeah, I think so. I think part of who I've been as, giving everyone else the big piece of meat and then taking what's left at the end. So I guess I have to really realize it's okay to sometimes take the big piece of meat. 

Heather Finch: Yeah. Even when you're working in a, in a group, sometimes you need that out of the group.

And sometimes you'll, you're always going to support when someone else needs that. So support yourself when you [00:40:00] need.

Karen: Oh, my gosh, this has been intense and so wonderful. Wow. 

Heather Finch: Well, I'm so glad that you asked for re well the two didn't ask that you agreed to material. No, 

Karen: absolutely. We know will is always the one that gets to have these experiences and I'm like, oh, it's my turn now. So much. And, and it's, it's interesting because he is, he's been learning so much along this.

And like I said, he kind of not a hundred percent intentionally keeps me in the dark, but it's, it kind of helps with, even with the podcast to have two different types of questions and mindsets going into it. And I had no idea what to expect. And, you know, it's, I'm, I'm usually just full on it. I'll I'll believe it all.

And today to me, just really emphasizes why I should believe it all because you have nailed so many things and given me a very different perspective. especially after this conversation, I think you're very special. You've been very special to me today. So [00:41:00] thank you. So if people want to get your help, how can they contact you to get, is it a reading and alignment?

Heather Finch: What would so realignment is what it's called because people don't understand what soul realignment is. I say soul profile reading. And realignment and it just so that the word is in there. I have a website, which is I'm sure you'll put it in the notes. The art of inviting 

Karen: Oh, that's wonderful.

The art of inviting happiness. Perfect. absolutely. We'll put that. And do you have social media where people can contact? 

Heather Finch: I also have a Facebook page and I'm on LinkedIn as well, because I think the people who need this most are people who are working and. I, I just feel that sometimes we can get very lost in our jobs and start to wonder why am I doing this?

Karen: Yep. And I'm sure you sent all that information to we'll so we'll make sure all of that is in the show notes. So anybody who's out there give Heather up, send her an email contact or reach out to her because she is incredible. I mean, this is all.[00:42:00] So I hadn't even know so profound and, and genuine, and she is such a lovely, lovely woman.

So please just reach out to her and she's going to help you understand maybe why you act, how you do and react to how you do and help you live a better, more whole life. So I strongly, strongly recommend reaching out to her. Hello. Thank you so much. I can't thank you enough for this. I'm going to go tell will all about it,

but this has just been a fantastic, fantastic experience. And I look forward to talking with you again. Yes, 

Heather Finch: yes, definitely. I'd like to to catch up and see how things are going. Definitely. 

Karen: And thank you listener I'm sure will, is going to add a wonderful ending to this because he always does. But we will see you next time on the skeptic metaphysician until then take care.

Oh, whoa. It's will, but back again, I don't know about you listener, but I have goosebumps. I know I'm definitely going to reach out to Heather to have one of these readings because the information she [00:43:00] gave to Karen life-changing, I mean, nothing short of life-changing. So if you're interested in reaching out to Heather and getting a soul life, Reading done by her.

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